I think that was fine you helped with the kids when your W was having a minor breakdown. Your kids should always be a top priority. Good on going out even when your W expected you not to go. I think you were wrong to include your W on the movies and let her rest her shoulder on you. She needs to see separation/divorce from you will not be like the fantasy she has in her head.
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The next day, when I told her I'd "talked to people" there (women), she said she still feels very possessive of me.
Yep, she definitely enjoys cake-eating. I don't think this is a good thing.
Well, your W wants you to make sacrifices to allow your sons to live in the same house. It's her choices that are making this a possibility. I don't think you should do that unless it is the right choice for you, financially and emotionally. I'm sure wherever you choose to live will be a nice place for your boys, and your W should have no input or pressure on you to do something that may not be in your best interest.
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Anyway, since last fall she and W have gotten closer - and W still doesn't know. Somehow, that bothers me, that W regards her as such a good friend while she's keeping this secret. Anyway, putting this down now, because Friday night we all went to a school function, and it was awkward, as W and I were there with the twins, and she was right next to us with her triplets. (yes, I know.)
I think this is horrible. I don't think it's at all fair for your W to be considering this woman a good friend, when by her actions it is clear that she isn't. I think your W should know the truth, don't you think that is clearly wrong?
