I had wondered what happened to you. GIMA is right, counseling will help you to cope with your feelings of depression. Marital problems must be some of the most traumatic to deal with and divorce is essentially an act of violence as it splits the "one" into "two". There is no really easy or soothing way to do that even when you feel there is no other option. Remember, this too shall pass. I know that doesn't really help but it is true.
(((Mark)))
Absolutely true. And something I am constantly reminding myself of these days. It WILL get easier.