Quote: He says he's angry and doesn't trust me...well I've lived that way with him for the past 7 years because he was so uninvolved and unable to give us affection....WHAT ABOUT THAT!!!??? Should I tell him this? I want to leave him a voicemail.
Have you told him this SAME thing in the past? IF you have, then he's already heard it. Maybe he doesn't know how to give affection, maybe he doesn't know how to be involved. Remember his background? He's a mess and there's nothing you can do to change the last seven years.
No expectations, don't call him, don't leave him a voicemail. If he's angry then stay away, he said what he needed to say. You could say something like, you seem very angry right now so until you calm down I'm going to leave or just walk away, don't get pulled into his mood. If he says he doesn't trust you say something like "I know you don't trust me, I know are past hasn't been the best.
