Jealousy To tell or not to tell ????

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Re: To tell or not to tell ???? Allen A #1927501 01/31/10 08:23 PM
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OP blackskys New Member B Joined: Jan 2010 Posts: 8	I still have not told OP's wife. It weighs on my mind ever day. I have read differant opinions and am very confused. My wife seems deppressed and distant. We have a very hard time discussing anything without it turning into a fight. My wife still warns me not to tell OP's wife, she wonders why I would be so vindictive and says everything will blow up. I wish I could believe that NC is taking place but I dont. There is a part of me that thinks I should tell and let the cards fall. I also am afraid that telling OP's wife would only help villainize me further. Would that cause her to leave me??? Some of their emails I discovered stated that they both would wait to leave their spouses, that the timing wasnt right now.... Last edited by blackskys; 01/31/10 08:24 PM.

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To tell or not to tell ????	blackskys	01/29/10 10:12 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	01/29/10 10:16 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Puppy Dog Tails	01/29/10 10:34 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	01/31/10 06:36 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	blackskys	01/31/10 08:23 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Puppy Dog Tails	01/31/10 09:05 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Puppy Dog Tails	01/31/10 09:28 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/01/10 12:59 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/01/10 05:03 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/01/10 08:42 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Puppy Dog Tails	02/01/10 10:25 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/02/10 12:24 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Puppy Dog Tails	02/02/10 01:55 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/02/10 02:16 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Puppy Dog Tails	02/02/10 02:21 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/02/10 03:01 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Gnosis	02/02/10 03:36 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/02/10 04:01 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Gnosis	02/02/10 07:12 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	blackskys	02/02/10 04:13 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Gnosis	02/02/10 04:35 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	chatterbug	02/02/10 06:25 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Puppy Dog Tails	02/02/10 01:33 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/02/10 05:16 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Puppy Dog Tails	02/02/10 07:44 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/02/10 08:40 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Puppy Dog Tails	02/02/10 09:03 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	chatterbug	02/02/10 10:05 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/20/10 10:18 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	blackskys	02/20/10 11:36 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/21/10 12:05 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	4luv	02/21/10 12:48 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/21/10 06:20 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/21/10 06:23 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Puppy Dog Tails	02/21/10 01:56 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	fightingirish	02/21/10 03:03 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/21/10 04:52 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	blackskys	02/23/10 04:31 AM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Puppy Dog Tails	02/23/10 03:14 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	blackskys	02/23/10 04:15 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/23/10 04:57 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/23/10 05:02 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	jasper67	02/23/10 05:03 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	OnceBurdened	02/02/10 07:39 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	OnceBurdened	02/02/10 07:36 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Puppy Dog Tails	02/01/10 04:39 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Allen A	02/01/10 08:06 PM
Re: To tell or not to tell ????	Puppy Dog Tails	01/29/10 10:33 PM

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