IRMA, I don't put anything past anyone, so yes, it is possible he is doing things he shouldn't. IRMA, the OW could care less if you or your child are living on the streets starving to death! I'm sorry, but that is the honest truth! As far as going ahead with the Child Support, I say absolutely!! Take his sorry butt to court, I promise you the Judge will make him responsible for the money, it will force him to get off his sorry behind! Do not, and I repeat do not give up on that! If you do, he will manipulate you from now on!!!