My SO came to drop off our daughter and I was upstairs folding laundry. So when they got here, she yelled "hello" to see where I was at and I said hi to our daughter. then they came up the stairs, and she asked me a question about our dauthers potty training, I responded briefly, then went on about folding the laundry.
She told our daughter bye and went back downstrairs. She yelled back up that she'd be over to get her tomorrow, and I said nothing. She left.
Was I wrong in essentially ignoring her, or did I do the right thing. It took quite a lot of strength not to look at her or engage her in conversation...but was it right?
Or should I have been more "hi how are you?". I know you can "catch more flies with honey...", and my being nice to her was what got good positive responses before...but now Friday has happened.
But should I wait this out before trying anything positive with her? Maybe see if she makes the first move in being positive so as to not push?
