NSW, those are all feelings, and no one says you can't have them. It's HEALTHY to have them.
What you can't do is continue to ACT on them, because you're killing whatever chance you have at getting your wife back.
Puppy
Puppy...I think I may have had an epiphany. I have ALWAYS been an emotional guy...one of the most emotional guys someon will ever meet...not only wearing my heart but my emotions on my sleeve.
So perhaps a good 180 for me, would be not showing these emotions at all when I'm around her.
And you are right...and I think CityGirl also pointed it out...that acting on my emotions never works out right...its why I screwed up so bad Friday.
Now..here is a question: with my SO and I getting along this past week so well, I went abought a get well card for her for when she has her Wisdom teeth extracted at the end of this week. Given what happend on friday and what she said afterwards, would it be a pursuit and/or unwise to send her the get well card?
If when she got it she was still feeing as angry at me as she has been, I think the card would serve no purpose other than to annoy her. She might even throw it away without looking at it. So I'm thinking I shouldnt send it, but I wanted to see if others agreed, or thought it would be ok.
