YEP that IS it O/P..... he got served child support papers B/H, I figured since he is going to court she will push him to file for a divorce now,dont you think? This has been in the works for months, but it took them forever to get to this point ...he was so mad!!!!!!!.....he wants me to tell them that he has a $20k credit towards that back child support.......is he crazy or what.....we were texting since xmas on a regular basis.....nice friendly chats....now nada....proably using me again like he did right before he left...but I am ok....had a good cry after we got off the phone...HE DID THIS TO HIMSELF....
IRMA, you did what was best for your child! Don't feel sad nor sorry for him! He needs to step up and care for her! If he files, he files! He will probably try to hang that over your head, don't fall for it! If he has a 20k credit, then he will get his day in court to prove it! HANG TOUGH!!!
I think my husband is involved in illegal activity i.e. selling drugs.....I am afraid for him.....please keep him in prayer....not much else I can do for him.....what is going to become of him??? he has been in this for 3 yrs now.....who knows when this will end????
He has no job......and he sends this pic to one of our kids saying this one pot plant died!!!!.... how can he live without any money.....do these o/w not care that they dont provide for them instead of the other way around.....this is why I was questioning about why bother taking him to c/s court... what can a judge do to order him to pay when he has no income coming in???? the money he did have is gone I was able to follow his bank acct with all the money, it eventually closed due to it being overdrawn, even his brothers say he is totally broke...... did I do something wrong in posting this here???? I value your opinion B/H.... could it be that he is doing what I think he is doing......he used to sell it and grow it when he was a teenager way before we met.....why not now after all he is a teenager in his mind
IRMA, I don't put anything past anyone, so yes, it is possible he is doing things he shouldn't. IRMA, the OW could care less if you or your child are living on the streets starving to death! I'm sorry, but that is the honest truth! As far as going ahead with the Child Support, I say absolutely!! Take his sorry butt to court, I promise you the Judge will make him responsible for the money, it will force him to get off his sorry behind! Do not, and I repeat do not give up on that! If you do, he will manipulate you from now on!!!
IRMA, One more thing, if he is involved in that, you need to file for divorce IMMEDIATELY! I'm sorry, but to continue to stay married to someone who would do something like that would be destructive to you and your family. I am also certain that God would totally understand this.
I know what I know in my heart, I will NOT file for divorce, it would go against all that I believe in...why should I give in to something I dont want, I am in this for the long haul.....my own personal beliefs.....as far as C/S I will not back down....I need help with our daughter....also if I divorce him this would only lessen HIS guilt.......divorce is not for me, if and when HE FILES then and only then will this happen....
