The other night, I was picking up kids and there was a pile of stuff in the garage, my stuff, from under our bed.
In that stuff was a legal pad i used to keep that i had written my goals on 3 yrs ago.
Everything from Disney to paying off wife's student loan,cc's,getting her a car,stuff around the house.
Guys I accomplished everything, everything on that list before she filed divorce.
I mentioned to her, look at that list sometime, we accomplished everything but the trip to hawaii on that list.
which btw the trip to hawaii was booked in early august, so was a trip to the bahamas in december.
she stopped those two goals, but they were booked.
i feel good about the fact that let's say instead of a divorce someone had looked at that list at say my funeral.
kids,a loving wife and friends would've said, look at that he accomplished everything he had written down.
I did.
Time to start a new goal list. I finished those goals before she filed, i feel good about that and no regrets on that either.
in the 19 yrs we were together from 7/7/07 to 6/14/09, that was the best time of our marriage and the best time for our family, we went on vacations, we did stuff, i coached, i was extremely happy, i was getting out of the car business in august she knew that, got us to a point financially.
