#2: WAH separated from us & I'm on the DBing path

[flowmom]

Any attempt by you to try to understand this thinking is a total waste of time.

Thanks for the reminder, OP. I think that analyzing H's thinking is an attempt at control on my part, like if I can somehow figure him out, I'll know what to do and how to "fix" the situation. I need to remind myself that mindreading and looking into my crystal ball is a "cheeseless tunnel" for me. And tunnel is a analogy, because you don't have much perspective when you're in a tunnel.

I'm going to read more of the MLC resources now...