glam girl makes a lot of sense although my R with xh never came close to where you both are/were I can relate to the WAS wanting to keep a foot in the door not being able to committ but cant leave either I experienced some of that when H and I were are better terms so maybe the decision is easy --or no decision just move forward and see where it all goes maybe it be will directed to you as life does that peace
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