I will keep my emotions in check today. If H starts R talk, should I stop it or let him talk? We are probably going to do something with the kids, so I don't think there will be any talk about us. But just in case, I'm not sure if I should allow that or not.

When do I set the boundry of NC with OW? Do I wait until he tells me he wants to work on the M?

I will be strong today.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10