You are right on many things and I have beat myself up over what I could/should have done differently, but if you are not told there are issues in your marriage then how can you try to resolve them?
I like your question about whether I would want to be with somebody who treats me like this, and to be honest I deserve better than that. I want to love and be loved, have open communication and try to put into practice all that I have read and heard here.
Thank you for the advice on couselling. I have previously seen cousellers and may well start again, just to vent.
I miss my children very much but we do have a great time when they are here.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years