ok this is advanced for me and my situation, however i feel the need to ask...

what are some signs from h that he may be having a bit of clarity in his thoughts and actions?

has been acting more of himself as of late, but i can also tell he seems to slip away too.

OP...thanks again for your kind words.I did alot WRONG when this started...i have been focused and working very hard!

h has been coming around and calling daily and actually being pleasant...and doing "normal" things

i would like an idea of how to handle it all!

all i know is not to show excitement and the such...which i havent been doing.

very strange that for how long he wouldnt interact and now it seems he wants to more and more...


me 39
h 38
kids 9 and 6
h left 8/9/09
loving and devoted wife and mother
still going...10 months later...




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