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[awest1217]

I am definitely being cautious, but H is trying and last night he text me at like 10:30 (I am figuring because he would normally text OW), but he text me instead. He was saying that over the last week he is finally starting to feel happy again. He said that he is really trying to change. He admitted that he is still talking to OW and having a hard time ignoring her, but he is trying and doing his best to make S and I number one priority. I am not saying he is not even close, but he is trying, and he has had OW for years (I honestly don't remember a time where there wasn't one, and he admits there was always one, but he doesn't understand why because I am not doing anything wrong and he doesn't want to lose me) so I am going to try to give him some time to go to a counselor and get some help to deal with these issues.

I am trying to just give him enough space so he can change, but at the same time be cautious to make sure he is changing. It is such a fine line, but I am doing my best to walk it.