Looking for Advice

[Lost Rabbit]

Ok I did read the above post although I did have to have several coffee breaks lol!

I just dont get why she doesnt interact with the girls, ok I know its her fog thing but Im with you and dont get it, and I can totally understand your frustration. I do think that (assuming you did tell the girls) you dont tell them when mum is coming home, she is still too unreliable to get them excited about a movie night and then her not show up. Just a thought presume ballet is every saturday as with most little girls, so on thursday ask W is she planning to take littlun to ballet on saturday as she really would like her mum to see how she is getting on, set friday eve for her to let you know, then no show down on saturday and also you can let D down gently before hand and not it be she suddenly realises mum dont want to go and watch her just as she is getting excited about going herself. Do like the way you intermated that your stressed neck was due to her lol!

Shes a tough nut your missus, but I suppose being in the military thats a given.. She really is swinging about in her emotions atm, so best advice is to steer clear, another thought I do wonder (well more like I know) if her over affection was due to you talking to another woman, personally I so wouldnt have put my hand on that soggy skirt she was just checking that you still had the hots for her (cake eating) I do think this week you need to go out more, its about time you got that icecream mate, and you need more cologne and a new shirt this week too! Rattle her from a distance, I find backing off and going quiet seems to work far more effectively than making a song and dance about it like I used too, calm quiet reflection. Just chalk all the good bits up to minute baby steps and keep going.. Huge ((())) because I know how wearing this is on all of you heart mind and soul, but your girls need you so do it for you and them and let W sort herself out in her own good time.