[list] [*]let me give you some background about why I am here:
- 1yr. ago this month my wife dropped the separation bomb. I refused to leave our family home and walk out on my sons. I had been the Mr. Mom, stay at home dad for nearly two years and was unemployeed.
- March 2009 she dropped the bomb that she wanted a divorce - April 2009 my suspicion that there was an affair going on was confirmed. I also discovered that she had given notice to our landlord that we would no longer be renting our home, but failed to tell me. I found out while snooping through papers at on her desk. I also listened to her talking to a friend on the phone one night explaining her plan to leave our family home, rent a new house for her and our sons and then file for divorce in two months. In doing so, she would have established a residence without me for her and the kids and therefore would gain a custodial advantage of our sons, so that she could get full custody. - May, I get a lawyer who tells me that if I don't act imediately I would lose my kids. So I filed for divorce on May 6th. (It's important to note that I had begun DB back in Feb. 2009 in order to hopefully save my marriage and my family from divorce. My decision to file was incredibly painfull and scarry.)
I will have more to follow, but I didn't want to give you a novel on my first post here.
It is my hope to build a support group here and to help to support all of you in any way I can. My heart goes out to all of you. Please feel free to write anything to me, and keep in touch. I COULD REALLY USE SOME FRIENDS TO TALK TO!
