Hopeless feelings

[pearlharbr]

mb28, please follow Puppy's advice. I found that when I was strong and made a stand with BF he wavered. Then he was nice, I reciprocated, and he ran back to OW. When I made the decision that he would leave the house--he did not have a choice in the matter--that proved I was serious about my boundaries.

Yes, he did move in with OW. It lasted all of one month before he told me he wanted another chance.

There is no guarantee in DBing, but I believe your best chance lies in following the route on which Puppy is guiding you. I did and not only did I figure out what I wanted out of my life but BF decided that he wanted to take that journey with me.