WAW now pregnant.....not mine

[Jstar]

i would like to say from my standpoint. I'm pregnat with my h's son, no doubt about it, since i've met him 3 years ago he's the only man i've ever been with. now he can't say that for other women.

the fact that there are men out there in this world even just willing to think about raising a child that may not be theirs biolgically is a great thing.

my h ditched us when i was 6 months pregnant, all through this time with hospitalizations, supporting me, he has NOT done anything. we also have a d2 and in which has not seen her but 3 times since nov.

whether the child is yours biologically, you divorce or reconcile, you have the chance to show your other children you are a good human being to the mother of your children in supporting her even if she has done some sinful things being married.

your decisions to remain married or divorce are on hold anyways till child is born and could be a lengthy court issue. your attorney and advice from others aware may think you are crazy and a pushover to "standby" your wife, and it is alot to take in personally. just think you are doing it for the innocent child that is mixed up in his mother's and could be father's stupidity since neither of them are responsible.