Yes, I'm getting a life. I go out with friends or alone on Friday nights, my boys and I go camping a lot, or we day travel to local towns and hang out. I mainly do a lot of reading.
Yes, I've bought tons of clothes mainly because I've lost 35 pounds since all this happened. And I make a point of always looking good when h is around. Started wearing makeup too, got my ears pierced.
I've stopped calling him and looking for ways to talk to him.
I'm just worried because our d hearing is November 17 and it looks like I'll be getting the d no matter what I do now. I've asked my attorney to seek a continuance of 6 months but we may not get that because h will show up to say he doesn't want to be married to me anymore. It's all up in the air now.
My sons tell me that my h did ask when we'd be leaving for our camping trip this weekend. I had asked h 2 weeks ago to go along but he has not replied nor do I think he will. Oh, well there is not much I can do now but look like my life has gone on and I'm ok. I see him this Saturday at the soccer game.
