Hopeless feelings

[flowmom]

mb28, that was an interesting interaction and I feel for you. I know that an interaction like that would send me wild with hope, but I see PDT's point about the dangers involved. I think the most important thing is to be grounded in your own center tomorrow. Be in a place where he can't make you wobble, regardless of whether your interaction is running warm or cold. Keep your dignity. Cultivate the aura: "I love you and your problem is your own problem to fix". I wonder if feeling that really strongly inside yourself would show that you can be warm and strong, dignified, and full of self-respect. Maybe say that a bunch of times to yourself to reinforce the mindset. He's made some bad choices. It's entirely up to him to start making good ones.

I wish you much luck tomorrow. You can totally make your frame of mind work for you.