Curveball...my sitch is a little different and I'm not quite in your position...but I am afraid I may be at some point.
My SO, who's with an OM, recently informed me that she was getting birth control. Our daughter was conceived while she was on birth control...apparently my SO isnt as skilled with its use as we assumed she was. So it may only be a matter of time.
I really cant offer any advice...but hopefully things will work out for you in a way that lets you find some peace.
