She asked who I was talking to, and I turned the phone over to our daughter. After she was done talking to her, about 10 seconds of silence went by and I noticed the phone was still going...so I asked if she was there and she said yeah, and asked again who I was talking to?
If she and I are "done"...she doesnt really have the right to know who I'm tlaking to...or am I again missing something?
So tell her. Say "I really don't think you're in any position to be questioning who I talk to, do you? I have decided that I will no longer answer to you on those kinds of questions, so please don't ask me again."