Im my sitch OM is aware of the pregnancy and was aware she was married.

I have went ahead and got the D process started, but in my state as well, nothing will happen until the baby is born. I am the 'legal' father also, so OM will als be named in the filing. My atty states this is to put the court on 'notice' that this isn't my child.

I have a pretty good idea what path I will be going down (D)...it just sucks having to start to admit to myself.