I understand what you are trying to say, but I can't ignore the kid issue. While I do (or maybe did...I don't know!) want my wife, I don't think I can hold this baby and just see an innocent child. I'll see 'his' child.
I love kids (even babies at 3 am!)...wouldn't trade the experience of having and raising my two for anything.
Maybe in time that will change (I just learned about this 2 weeks ago), but for right now I just don't think I can do it.
