I have the same feelings. I have one good step and then I want to go back and start calling and doing all that kind of thing that just doesn't work. You must stay the course. He is noticing, but just like you look for any little sign that things might be changing with him, HE is looking for the same things in YOU! If you do what you did at the soccer field and the next time you are back to the not in control, sad, insecure Cindy you give that ammunition right back to him.
OK, you've made him raise an eye brow, hummm what was that all about. Now make him turn and really LOOK AT CINDY!
Quote: Should I talk to him? Or wait until he talks to me first?
I would be friendly. I wouldn't make a point to go talk to him, but don't ignore him. If he approaches you, talk, SMILE!!, stand tall and confident... FRIENDLY TONE- this can be a hard one when you are not feeling necessarily FRIENDLY inside, but you must!
Keep the conversation light and NO NO NO R talk or even hint of it. Briefly chat, smile and then go about you business.
I will be back to check on you in 9 days and I hope to see a lot of positive baby steps, OK?
