Feeling a bit blue today. Haven't done too much today out of the house. Kind of bored, but no $$! Dang.
Doesn't help that someone text'd me that they saw exh and MGF driving. It shouldn't bother me, but I guess it does. Is it the fact that he is out having fun with MGF or the fact that he blew off baby for MGF? Or the fact that I am stuck at home bored?
Shaking off the blues.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Shake harder!!! Seriously, you wouldn't want to switch places with her would you? NO!!! So don't let them make you blue! And you need to let your friends know that you do NOT want to be informed of X's happenings!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
Shake harder!!! Seriously, you wouldn't want to switch places with her would you? NO!!! So don't let them make you blue! And you need to let your friends know that you do NOT want to be informed of X's happenings!
I was just cuddling with baby and...No, there isn't a place I would rather be than with her.
This wasn't even a friend really that text'd me...it was a distant aquaintance that I talk to about sports stuff for my son. I guess she was shocked to see MGF with exh. I maybe talk to this woman 3 times a year! It just happened.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
and I know it would hurt hearing this info from other people. But, seriously, you know this woman and how ridiculously crazy she is, do you REALLY think he is having lots of fun??? He can't be without a woman for a second, and he's basically pathetic right now, so don't think about him or what he's doing.
just keep GALing, and focus on all the positives in your life.
I'm sorry.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Thanks ST and BND...I know he is pathetic. He really is...but I am feeling really isolated and down today. Friends are all doing couple things and its been baby and I alone.
So he just sent this and I want to throw up. I am sure she is with him and telling him how great of a father he is...
"Give baby a kiss goodnight and tell her how much daddy loves her."
Yeah right! I am not responding to that at all.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Does he honestly think that when you receive those texts that you run in to tell your daughter how much her daddy loves her? Geeze, he is delusional. That needs to be stopped. He needs to be told that he can text regarding visitation, but that is it!!!
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
Does he honestly think that when you receive those texts that you run in to tell your daughter how much her daddy loves her? Geeze, he is delusional. That needs to be stopped. He needs to be told that he can text regarding visitation, but that is it!!!
I think its his way of relieving some guilt and also to keep some control on me. If he is alone he will send the text over and over, but i don't think he is so once may be it.
It is crazy. It would almost be better if he asked how she was.
In 2 weeks he has seen her 2 hours TOTAL out of 24 hours of possible visit time. I really really hope that says something to a judge if it ever came down to it.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Oh, I forgot to mention the wonderful suprise that was waiting for me in my mailbox yesterday.
MIL sent a bunch of pics of her wedding last summer..pics of her and her husband, exh and his brothers, exh and his mom, even one of baby and I. She attached a letter saying she wanted me to start a scrapbook for baby and put exh's family in it starting with this 'wonderful family day we all shared'. Ok...this wonderful day last summer (go read about it..its a doozy) was exh's mothers wedding. Exh begged us to come and wanted to be with his family when his mom got married. It turned into exh hiding beer in the bathroom (no alcohol served), getting drunk, was texting the whole time, and took off and left baby and I standing there while he openly flirted with his SIL's sister for 90 minutes. He barely even acknowledged baby. I packed baby up and we left.
This stupid woman wants me to put these pics in a scrapbook?! Yeah the round file scrapbook! Thats her loser fathers job.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
