The point is the fact that you are still WAY too wrapped up in what SHE is doing instead of focusing on you, and your boys having a great time together.
Before you say " No she didn't".......you were on the board posting while your boys were playing Wii......Trying to figure out why she does this or that...
So YOU let her steal your evening....Stop reacting to every little freakin thing and trying to spin a reason to this and what she is doing everytime there is an interaction....
So she was picking up her girlfriend....Maybe it was because the Toaster told her to do it......
Mach,
So it’s the toaster now telling them what to do, not the phone? Well there goes Trapt’s money maker…..
B,
I have to agree with Mach, not the best response.
It was filled with apathy.
I also agree you are still too wrapped up in the “whys” of her actions and her responses to your actions.
Again I will tell you, it really doesn’t matter why she is doing any of this. It really doesn’t and you are just making yourself crazy trying to figure that out.
Eventually, when she knows, she will tell you. Only then will you really know.
How you respond, how you react, how you SHOW her yourself right now, is what might make the difference.
What the end result will be…
No one knows right now. Not us, not her, not you.
Keep moving forward, learning every step of the way…
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
