And I just spent two hours on the phone with an old friend who is going through her own divorce.

She's doing better, but she has almost daily contact with her ex. He has some mental health issues he's working on, and she is still helping him out until he's in a better place.

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."