So what you told him you were busy so be busy, can you not go out and arrive back at the house about the time H is coming over.. You are allowed to say NO Hope, that is NO Hope not NO HOPE lol!
If he can go galivanting at the weekend what ever he is up too you can do your own thing too, control works both ways..
How can he tell your freaking out about nothing, your mind reading stop it! Dont allow him control take it back you can do it you dont need to be at his beck and call.. Again with the OW until you have proof stop panicking, he could be doing anything the more you freak the less likely he is gonna tell you what he was doing, the more happy and content with your lot you seem the more likely he is to share what he is doing.. Believe me when ever H said he was doing this or doing that I used to feel sick but I was b*ggered if he was ever gonna know about it..
Small 2x4 for Hope dont panic until you have too hun!
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