My Story...possible "grass is greener" scenario?

[MarkG]

Saying we're done is typical WAS stuff. The affair needed to be exposed. My W did almost exactly the same thing, and I did almost exactly the same thing. It sometimes has to get worse before it gets better. When she's calm again tell her you won't live in an open marriage, which she'll counter with saying there won't be a marriage. Tell her it's her decision and leave it at that. In the meantime GAL and start working on you. You don't have to be ok with everything she does. You'll get to a breaking point at some time in the future where you'll say you're done with her, and the question is if she's going to come back before that happens. Just keep coming back here and don't give up hope, but you have to keep moving your life forward so you land on your feet.