Trent, Good on the IC. Let the MC on Wednesday go.
Listen, this is a girl thing, and the other girls get it. You are both grieving, and she is going to grieve differently.
She can't have your baby without a uterus.
What do you (Trent) need today? To take care of her? Maybe. This is a really tough one, others have been where you are, and there is support for your W. Does she have a sister?