BobbiJo, I don't think you did anything wrong. Sweetie it is okay to protect yourself, and not allow Dan to walk all over you. Remember, this is what he wanted. Right now he has the best of both worlds, being able to come and go as he pleases. He still has the loving wife, the inviting home. Let him lose that stuff. In all honesty, it may make him think twice about what he is giving up.

And you need the peace of mind. Going through this mess is the hardest thing a LBS can do, but to have it constantly thrown in your face...I think that is the worst.

So you go girl! Way to set the boundary...

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..