Fast track to her divorcing me

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OldPilot, This is exactly where my thoughts are also.
She is just off the deep end.

Not divorced yet for another 10 days. All her idea, and she wanted a D ASAP.

I gave into the D because of the possibility of losing my home. The deal we made was I would agree to a civil divorce that she wanted if I got the house (paid for). I also agreed to will the house to my Son after passing. This was most important to her. I realized that having to sell and start renting would kill us both financially.

By keeping the house I not only ensure my own survival alone but I also will have a home for HER to come HOME too if she ever considers reconciliation. It could be that she now understands this and what forcing me to sell our home would do to both of us.

She claimed that the only reason why she is surrendering the deed to me is to ensure that I do not sell so my Son can get the house later.

This was after I warned her that I would have to sell the house in a bad market IF she forced me to give her 1/2 of the market value to her under the D. Still keeping my fingers crossed on this until 9 Feb 2010.

But what has me stumped now is that she seems to want to be friends. and spend time with me. I just dont know.