He said he is done!!

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I took everyone's advise - I got into H's email...HE LIED!! Now I am wondering how stupid am I and I consider myself pretty smart. Denial SUCKS!

I confronted him over the phone and of course he denied at first - couldn't deny once I said I had seen the emails (even one from Friday stating how much he loved her - This has been going on since August! He has even been looking at divorce advise websites since September! Know that this really doesn't matter - BUT (just venting) she is not even attractive! After about 3 minutes I hung up on him - after I told him to go ahead and file for the BIG D! I have always raised my kids that cheating is unacceptable - I can not accept this and I know in a year from now this OW will be gone - after all he found her on CRAIGSLIST! HOW SICK!! wonder if she knows that he has been looking for other women on craigslist besides her!

Looked at about 100 emails - HOW dare he send her pictures of our children!! Oh and a picture of him on our 20th anniversary trip in Oct 2009! She even replied - "my favorite picture".

The one thing I hate is that my D's saw me have a panic attack!!