Thursday night I found a email asking me if I am ready to switch the cars ownerships. Since I saw this as something people do when getting D I called to ask if he had filed and was told no.
I then said that I wasn't ready to change ownership. His response was to say OK stay married forever but I think it is a mistake b/c we have tried and failed and then he hung up.
I thought about it overnight and emailed him the next day something like: you hung before I could say that we both have things we can be doing differently, quitting not included. explained once again that I thought a break would help to break the negative cycle, and if wrong ok. However if he really wanted to pursue a D then I would not fight, but since we can't agree on anything M what makes him think we can D cooperatively?
Having gotten any response not sure what that means. But it made me feel better to say it.
