Hey K, sorry I missed you, I too am having a funny weekend!

So you really reckon he was talking to his Mum under your mask? Hmm, well I always thught it incredible (alarming? Textbook!?) that he told your Best Woman in August that he was only NOW getting over the death of his Mum, 6 years later.

I thikn that this weekend was a crisis point,but also a turning point. I liked that you comforted and hugged him when he cried. I would advise continuing being loving and comforting, consistent with him and not his enemy, as you put it (you arent really, he has transferred some feelings to you that he couldnt process about/with his Mum perhaps hey?)...but then you know what a pushover I am !! I think someone said here that his actions are consistent with a man in MLC, as I feel he does fit the model and that he is on the downward leg of his journey hey? But not out the other side yet.

Kerry said have patience! Funny, but true. I mean.. you've come THIS far, surely you cant turn round and give up now??? Look how far you have come, he was always playing catch up but whereas before he hadnt even saddled his horse up, I feel he is at least on the trail behind you now.

xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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