Just read through your sich real fast and I can really relate to your whole deal.
For what it is worth I think your W is in a MLC. Menopause certainly contributes to it. Depression is the real key. There may NOT be any OM/OP. My W appears to have none. Just a burning desire to end our M and blame me for everything. I am not perfect but I think she went off the deep end. I have been running into more and more people at this age that has the same deal.
I find it interesting that you D so FAST. I'll check up on you again.
