Some real progress in your headspace. It seems you are claiming YOU back from all the crap that has gone on over the last few years. Isnt it strange how them moving aside actually allows us to indulge in ourselves and what we really want again. As I cleared up this morning I actually thought to myself that if I had a little home of my own how tidy it would be and how little clearing up after H & S I would have to do as I like to put things away back in their home. I am no longer accepting responsiblity for keeping this house clean while they work, before I worked full time and kept house not brilliant but none the less, thats why I gave up work I couldnt do it all,but now back at work, I am just going to contribute my fair share to the household, when I have time I will do things when I dont well ce sera! Also ME time is important, I have things that fill my soul but maintenance time is now also a priority, but finding that difficult cos of money as you know now!
We came into these relationships independant women and some how we lose that and its that which probably attracted our mates in the first place, lets face it they were highly unlikely to go chase the often pathetic, scared, needy creatures we have become, so amen model yourself on H4L post marriage, get her back older yet wiser, but twice as sexy lol!
Fixing them wont work but just let them see we are fixing us and that they can fix themselves to if they can be bothered too and if they cant well someone else will get to play with Mrs H4L!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
