Oh and btw he texted me at 5:30 last night "I have dinner"--it was his night. I didn't reply.
Then he calls at 5:50, "Did you pick up the kids from daycare?"
Me, "Nope".
So, he did. Good so far, right?
Well I changed into work out clothes and walked down the stairs to leave and in walks Dan and the kids.
He acts all surprised I am leaving, "I told you I had dinner, don't you want me to grill you a burger?"
I was so taken aback I just left and went to workout.
Came back and there they were all on the floor watching a movie together for Friday Movie Night...didn't know how to say something in front of the kids so I didn't.
Went and took a shower and by the time I came out movie was off, kids were half asleep on the floor. He grabbed his coat and headed out. I should have called him then and set him straight but I didn't....
So anyway that brings us to today and I just cannot take it anymore that he is sitting in MY house while I get the kids ready. Guess what I was probably as mad at myself for letting him...
Anyway kids head out to car and I said something to him and he came back in and I just unloaded on him.
Told him he was driving me crazy, coming in and not helping then when I suggeted things he needed (chapstick, face lotion as Sydney is dried out) he kept saying, "I got it" but he didn't!
I told him furthermore it pissed me off that he just came over and used my house as he pleased, not because he wanted anything to do with me but because it was convenient for him! My words were something like, "I don't have anywhere to take the kids, I'll just go use Bobbi's house".
Anyway he looked surprised and then pissed and said, "Fine, I won't bring them over here anymore" and I said, "That would be great"...
Then he left and I bawled my eyes out...
wtf
Then not following the 48 hour rule I texted him:
"I don't think you understand how hard this is for me. To have you around all the time after hearing you say you did not desire any kind of relationship with me. If I am not friend/wife/lover to you then I don't think I can be anything to you. This whole year of you being around but not around had been too much. So I need you not to be around"
