Originally Posted By: gucci loafer
Hurry up and tell the OM's wife..

Quit dilly dallying....

You may have this affair on the ropes if you do..

This means that the OM's wife doesn't know and your wife knows she doesn't know...

WHICH means that the OM is NOT sure what he wants..

EXPOSE to the OM's wife ASAP... Time is a wastin....

Your wife will be mad. Let her be mad. Your marriage can recover from her being mad. It can't recover while she is in an affair..


GUCCI, I do not have contact for the OM wife,, I just have his phone contact info..

W told me today that she spoke with her lawyer, If I attempt to contact her employer or familiy, that will be harassment and the Lawyer will file a restraining order.. There is a lot legally wrong with that statement, but tells me.. wife was scared enough to contact her L.. She wants to protect the OM...

I tried to bluff W/OM into telling the OM spouse.. If i dont follow thru in 24 hrs... I can try and find the info, I know the city where they live... A possibility is that I can wait until they think I'm afraid and not going to call, and then when I get the info, go tell her...


DD

H50
W44
M17 yrs
S15
D11
D10
Bomb 4/09
Trial separation/moved out 9/09
Moved back in 12/29/09