ok ....be prepared and I think you are there is someone else....ok why isnt he coming to her needs....consider this...he is married and hasnt left his wife yet so he may not be totally hers yet....
In an affair..women tend to leave first and the man they are in cohoets with takes longer to make the break from there family....so she may appear to others like she is getting out of a bad marriage....and suffering and healing and then all of the sudden her new guy will pop up...but he has been there ...just a possibility... but either way I lay odds there is someone...in the wings ...
I hung on to the whole mlc thing......I thought we had an amazing marriage...no not in the perfect sense...but that we fit together were so committed etc....then came the sectratary...and i would have bet he never would have cheated......or left his family..
anyway protect yourself which may not be too hard she gave ou the house...keep whatever you can....not that the stuff matters...it just wont leave you feeling as voilated later when she is announcing her marriage to the new guy....that she just met....yea right take care and I agree now it doesnt matter if its mlc or waw......it all is the pits and leaves u the same.....alone abandoned and rejected...its not U ...but it will be a long process to get there...take care