Originally Posted By: Bridgestone
DDogs,
I'm sorry for your pain & what has to be an very rock & emotionally upheaving past few days.

A question for you:
What is your motive for taking these actions?

Is this a 'get-even' on the way to divorce court because YOU are done?

or

Are you still DB'ing, taking Puppy's approach. to work your way back into the opportunity for a healthy M with your wife?

Peace
Bridge


I'm trying to expose the affair and get it out in the open... I did not do this on her last affair 2 yrs ago and she gained much support from friends/family that did not know what went on... it allowed w to justify and rationalize her actions.

There can be no healthy marriage if a third party is involved. I'm trying to rid us of the OM


DD

H50
W44
M17 yrs
S15
D11
D10
Bomb 4/09
Trial separation/moved out 9/09
Moved back in 12/29/09