DDogs, I'm sorry for your pain & what has to be an very rock & emotionally upheaving past few days.
A question for you: What is your motive for taking these actions?
Is this a 'get-even' on the way to divorce court because YOU are done?
or
Are you still DB'ing, taking Puppy's approach. to work your way back into the opportunity for a healthy M with your wife?
Peace Bridge
I'm trying to expose the affair and get it out in the open... I did not do this on her last affair 2 yrs ago and she gained much support from friends/family that did not know what went on... it allowed w to justify and rationalize her actions.
There can be no healthy marriage if a third party is involved. I'm trying to rid us of the OM
DD
H50 W44 M17 yrs S15 D11 D10 Bomb 4/09 Trial separation/moved out 9/09 Moved back in 12/29/09