In December I gave him the temporary stipulated order to sign. This was the reason I filed for divorce, so that there would be some guarantee of support and a detailed visitation plan. He said he wanted to have someone take a look at it, and would hem and haw about it every time I brought it up.
He even brought it up in counseling a couple of weeks ago, presenting it as if I nagged him about signing the order every time I saw him (I had only mentioned it a few times since I gave it to him). He acts as if he is so concerned about not being screwed over (acts like he's not the one doing the screwing). That it's ME doing this TO HIM. So, I said no more about the order, and last night he gave it to me, signed. He said he wasn't going to get a lawyer because he couldn't afford one.
So I don't know, and am not going to ASSume anything from that. I will keep being kind and sweet over the next few months because I promised I would. I keep my promises...
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011
