Leave her be.

And leave OM be. He is a PREDATOR; why would you try to reason with a predator? It's like Obama trying to be "reasonable" with the ayatollahs and the North Koreans. Appeasement doesn't work.

You may be able to get a temporary restraining order against OM coming in contact with your daughter for a period of time. You should talk to your atty about that.

Of COURSE she was lying, and playing you. ALL CHEATERS LIE -- period. What part of that is difficult to understand?

Puppy