It is so cool that you are inspired to do all you can to make your relationship better. Yeah for you!!!!
One thing you might want to keep in mind is that many, many people link the identity of themselves with their jobs. It defines who they are, you know? If your H is not happy in his job, then more than likely he is not happy with himself.
You don't seem to be a person who defines yourself by your job or your job title -- very good for you. But he does. This is a very important thing to keep in mind, especially when it comes to the support you give him.
When he talks to you about his job, he is talking to you about 90% of his life. One way you can be supportive is to ask him open ended questions. Like, "Wow. I see your point. What do you think you're going to do about that?" By asking him such questions, it shows you care, but you are not belittling what he perceives to be a big problem, and you are not trying to SOLVE his problems, see?
Hey, you may want to take a look at the inspirational stories on these boards. They may give you some ideas... there's a great one, entitled, It takes one to tango...
Just a thought. Keep going, girl, you'll get there!!
