I feel real bad for you. I wish I could give you idea's to flip his switch as I'm HD and like you have been since very young, I have a hard time relating to men that are LD, it just seems to me that they are miss wired or have poor hormone production or something. I think you might get some good help on the LD from him in Michelle's books or others. You might think back to some of your "better sessions" to find out what might turn him on. What did he say he liked or enjoyed, what did you do that seemed to turn him on the most. Use that as starting place. The other area, yeah keep reminding him you love him and trust him and keep the "nagging" down. Now, asking for something is not the same as nagging. (unless you ask all the time) The "nothing" is a defense thing that you need to forget about. The "nothing" means he isn't going to help you at this point figure out what he wants dirrectly. (sad) Think back to what you did in the past that he really liked, there is your clue. Has he ever asked you to do something that you have forgot about or not got around too? If so, better late than never. What are this guys hobbies and interests? You have been married 2 years and known him before that what makes him tick? Have you not followed through with learning something about his hobbies that he has offered and durring your busy life have not got around too? Example, my wife has told me she wanted to learn to shoot to hunt with me once in awhile. Over the years I have got 3 different guns for her, taken to the trap club for lessons 2 times. Now I have suggested we go practice shooting a number of times and each time she has been "busy". Now I get blamed because I didn't take her out to practice! NOT fair! She needed to put forth a bit more effort, like "I can't go shooting this Sunday, but next week I can". So if now she came to me and said I want to got shooting and I have time to do so on this Sunday or what night is the skeet range open? That would get my attention. If you turn us guys down more than about 2 times we start to feel you really don't have an interest in what ever it is you said you want to learn. Again I hope this helps you.
