My friend and her H, took my H out to a bar last night. I got a phone call from my friend while they were at the bar. She couldn't tell me much, because she could only talk for a few minutes. She told him that she knew about the OW, he said they were just friends. Moreover, sense he hired an attorney, he thinks he has it made with what his L told him. In addition, he said I only want him back because of connivance, not love. She never did call me back again last night, so I'm assuming they were able to get him to stay at their house. This is what they were going to try to do, so he didn't go back to see the OW. My friend told him that he shouldn't drive, and that he needed to stay. So now, I have to wait to get details.
However, I awoke up this morning feeling like sh*&t!!! I feel like such a fool holding out hope and that he is playing me. Feeling treated like 2nd choice. I know I need to be patient and see what happens when I finally expose to OWH. However, this is not good for my self-esteem.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
