wood/brad/......

I'm gonna say this, While YOUR response was not the most stellar piece of unconditional , caring love that you proclaim to have.

The point is the fact that you are still WAY too wrapped up in what SHE is doing instead of focusing on you, and your boys having a great time together.

Before you say " No she didn't".......you were on the board posting while your boys were playing Wii......Trying to figure out why she does this or that...

So YOU let her steal your evening....Stop reacting to every little freakin thing and trying to spin a reason to this and what she is doing everytime there is an interaction....

So she was picking up her girlfriend....Maybe it was because the Toaster told her to do it......

The only thing you can control is whether or not YOU let her spin you out.

YOUR reaction, not what she is doing..is the only thing you can do something about...

So you weren't the best you can be ?

Do something about it, for you.......not her.

Mistakes are only deadly if you keep making the same ones...Learn from it, and move forward.

Don't let her off the hook by being who she needs you to be when she walks away......


Peace my friend....you know where I am....


Kerry, Sorry to hear about your Steelers Wheel moment....








Last edited by Mach1; 01/30/10 02:09 PM.