Thanks. Appreciate your advice. Let me ask another one. So let's say she gives me the legal seperation papers. I act business like and show no emotions - I'm preparing myself so I think I can do that. If LS contentious topic does come up along the way as I'm sure it will - I am thinking my response and consistent theme should be simple with no details like "I need to protect myself and my financial well being going forward" - something like that that focuses on me not her and not kids. I am thinking this is also showing the "confident man who will have a life with or without her". I think I answered my own question............
Me: 48 W: 47 M: 25 years T: 30 years S24, D21, D11 Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09 Separated Feb 2010
